Adding more to Grits’ Breakfast…
I posted this on my own website www.defrostingcoldcases.com but would like to have the opinion of Thinking Fluidly’s readers as well. Read on:
Grits for Breakfast has an interesting post on what role victims should play in plea bargains. When I read that I said to myself: none. The prosecution does not represent victims but the Constitutional State.
Make no mistake about what I just said. I do not condone crime and acknowledge that victims’ rights were violated but as Grits for Breakfast states, those are different rights: ”crime victims who say “their rights have been walked on,” but those aren’t legal rights, only theoretical ones the speakers think they should have.” He continues with the case of Former US Congressman Craig Washington. Please go to his post to read the details.
There is one part I wish to highlight and comment on: “I find fascinating this overarching desire by the victims to tell their story to 12 people they do not know. Indeed, getting to tell their story, by their own account, was more important than any punishment Washington might receive.”
This behaviour is not so strange if you compare it to some psychiatrists’ sessions. The patient has an issue, has thoughts about it, wishes to bounce them off on a receptive sounding board to receive the official acknowledgment of a stranger that indeed, harm was done. Most patients are looking for the validation of their feelings. They tell their story to friends and relatives but their words do not carry the same cache as the word of a stranger, an expert if you will. Because, if the stranger acknowledges you were harmed, the harm really did happen. Friends and family may acknowledge the harm too but may add reservations, bring up past behaviour, suggest alternative options for future reference, etc. The stranger will listen and usually acknowledge this one fact: yes, you were hurt. Therefore, their behaviour in the case mentioned, does not surprise me at all.
What does surprise me is the lack of understanding in general for these emotional needs as Grits points out but also, the notion that it must be played out in the open to be real, valid. It reminds me of the pathetic need of celebrities to hold a press conference to publicly apologize for whatever they have done wrong. Instead of making amends, and correcting their lives with dignity, they seem to have this compulsive need to play it out in the open by tying themselves to a scaffold but they stop short of allowing us to throw rotten eggs at them!
If restorative justice is truly what we seek I do not understand why this cannot be done in a closed setting. The most victims seem to be able to reveal after they spoke on the stand is that now they have closure. However, Vidocq doubts that all their psychological issues have been resolved by just venting in front of 12 jury members. The same counts for these celebrities. What it does look like is that everyone wants to claim their minutes of fame, either big or small.
Vidocq firmly supports restorative justice and agrees with Grits who says that “restorative justice models focus more on giving victims that opportunity to confront both their victimizer and and their own personal demons – to publicly have their say and “‘re-story’ what happened to them in a way that lets them regain honor.” However those approaches have proven difficult to graft onto the traditional adversarial system, where there is no real avenue for victims to “reconcile differences” with offenders.”
Maybe we should look for less “public” and for more “integrity” to be really effective! What do you think?
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Please help me understand this!
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The Fountainhead
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From a strict ideological stand-point, Steve Best is less “dangerous” than me…

One of 50 billion reasons we support militant direct action: Park rangers at Zakouma National Park, in Chad, Africa, investigating the hacked face of a 20-year-old elephant.
By Jason Miller
2/14/10
In light of my close alignment with Dr. Steve Best, the spurious and maliciously defamatory accusations leveled against Steve by Gary Francione (an ostensible ally since he labels himself a vegan abolitionist), gross misrepresentations of my own philosophical positions, and false allegations about my praxis, I decided it was necessary to clarify some of these matters.
I started forging close ties with Steve in May of 2008 when I did an extensive interview with him and published it on my radical blog, Thomas Paine’s Corner. Just as Steve was back in 2001, at the time of our interview I was an anti-capitalist thinker and activist who was just beginning to embrace the Animal Rights Movement. We hit it off well in the interview, and recognizing that we were kindred souls, we unconsciously developed a mentor-student relationship. Which makes me a living, breathing contradiction to the venomous and false allegations made first by David Martosko of the abominable Center for Consumer Freedom (an Orwellian named entity that fronts for the interests of the likes of the tobacco and alcohol industries—they’ve even attacked MADD) and now by Gary Francione. Both have falsely claimed that Best recruits for the Animal Liberation Front and encourages people to engage in militant actions.
To those who believe these ridiculous attempts to assassinate Steve Best’s character, read this very carefully: Steve Best and I are close allies; I’ve been privileged to have had Steve as my mentor for almost two years; Steve and I have co-written a trilogy of essays that were published in book format; Steve is a senior editor with my blog, Thomas Paine’s Corner; I have taken the philosophy that I have learned under his tutelage and put it into practice via above-ground, legal and aggressive activism; and, pay close attention here, STEVE BEST HAS NEVER ENCOURAGED ME TO ENGAGE IN MILITANT DIRECT ACTION OR ILLEGAL ACTIONS OF ANY KIND. How absurd it would be to swallow the notion that Steve would recruit his mainstream, speciesist philosophy students at UTEP to join the ALF but neglect to attempt to draw me, one of his most passionate pupils, who is a vegan abolitionist and who is deeply embedded in the Animal Rights Movement, into his “web of intrigue.”
February 16, 2010 No Comments
And now you want to kill MORE innocents?
This image is pleasing to the eyes of decent human beings with the capacity to empathize….
This image is eye candy for serial killing sociopaths like you….
An open letter to the Death Park deer slaughterers by Jason Miller
Emailed on 2/13/10
Hello to my friends at JCPRD and KDWP,
Sorry to have neglected you for so long, but I’ve been pre-occupied with other animal rights issues and some personal matters.
I don’t believe I had gotten around to sending you the social statement that I included in my request to dismiss my appeal of the TRO (injunction) that I filed to stop your sadistic bow hunt of the Death Park deer, so here is a segment and a link to my condemnation of your malevolence in its entirety:
The Defendants have literally gotten away with murder…
Editor’s Note: Bite Club of KC is publishing a copy of the Notice of Voluntary Dismissal of our appeal of Judge Kevin Moriarty’s decision not to issue a TRO to stop the barbaric bow hunt in Death Park. Our founder, Jason Miller, wrote and filed this appeal with the Kansas Court of Appeals on 1/23/09, not as a signal that we’re surrendering or that the battle is over, but to demonstrate that our legal system is devoid of justice for nonhuman animals……
6. The Plaintiffs have reconciled himself to the fact that the Defendants have literally gotten away with murder, despite the immense social strife and stiff opposition they catalyzed with their gross abuse of power, extreme negligence that enabled the deer to over-populate to such an extent, unnecessary and gratuitous annihilation of sentient individuals who were under their stewardship, decimation of the aesthetic value and reputation of Shawnee Mission Park, breaking of Kansas state law by trading in wildlife (bartering deer bodies and “meat” for the services of the bow hunters), conducting an egregiously inaccurate and biased deer census to enable more killing after decimating the herd, breaking their own rules by allowing hunting and the use of broad-head arrows in Shawnee Mission Park, violating the Equal Protection Clause of the US Constitution by allowing a select few members of the community to break the law, and violating the Plaintiff’s Constitutional rights on myriad occasions via police and FBI harassment, surveillance, intimidation, and false arrest……
http://gahc.wordpress.com/2010/01/29/the-defendants-have-literally-gotten-away-with-murder/
And despite recognizing the depth of your duplicity, corruption, and incestuous ties to the hunting (aka nonhuman animal murdering) community and industries (it’s “comforting” to know that hunters, who comprise about 2.1% of the population in KS, and Cabela’s and Bass Pro Shop are dictating public policy in our so-called Constitutional republic), I was astounded last night when I read Jim Sullinger’s 2/10/10 article in the Kansas City Star (http://www.kansascity.com/news/neighborhood/olathe/story/1737879.html) in which you have essentially stated that non-lethal deer management will not be an option in Death Park (fka Shawnee Mission Park) in 2010.
February 16, 2010 No Comments
Have you seen Lily?
Lily Aramburo disappeared on June 1, 2007, and has not been seen since.
“Chances are you’ve probably never met Lily but if you did, you would understand why we’re so determined to find her. Lily was a girl of peace, a young mother who loved her baby boy very much. She was a humble person and good friend who touched everyone she met with her beautiful smile. She had the energy of a small child.
She loved music and although she loved rock, oldies were secretly her favorite songs. She loved to read and write in her journals, but refused to learn computers. She was a very simple girl, who shopped at vintage stores, and hardly ever wore make up. The term earth girl, comes to mind when I think of her. And pixie, as well. People would often confuse her with being a teenager because she looked so damn young.
Lily was tough as steel, both emotionally and physically. Once she fell off a 2nd story building at the University of Miami campus. She went to the hospital and walked out, took the brace off and kept going, because she had to be at work the next day.When she was pregnant with her son, she glowed. It was the most amazing time in her life. The loveliest I had ever seen her. Her skin looked a golden olive, and her almond shaped eyes, glistened. I could see life in her. And she was truly happy and hopeful, looking forward to the birth of her son.”
The text you just read was written by Janet Forte who, after her dear friend disappeared, has kept the case alive. The media has done a remarkable job ignoring this case. After speaking to Janet, Vidocq could not ignore the case hence this post.
If you wish to follow Janet on Twitter, search for @Yogini and please also follow @HelpFindLily. Updates will be posted on those Twitter accounts as well as on Janet’s blog. Please take a look at Lily’s picture, the missing person poster, and pay close attention to the tattoos on Lily’s back. The NAMUS case reports can be found here. 
The above story is sad and tragic but the whole story must be told if we want to remain truthful. Lily did not just disappear. She had a history of getting lost…lost in her thoughts, in drugs, in alcohol, trying to find herself but she never really succeeded. She almost did succeed after the birth of her son, but the drugs proved to have too strong a hold on her.
According to others, Lily disappeared wearing nothing but “a long nightgown while holding two bungee cords.” Some people who claimed to have seen her that night stated that they called out to her but she kept walking, not responding to their voices.
Lily was born on November 16, 1983, in San Francisco, CA. Her parents split up and after the divorce there was very little contact between Lily and her father. Lily started to develop problems while attending Hollywood Hills High School. Not having a father around was one issue she had to deal with but according to the article that quotes her own mother, she hung out with teens that did not have a lot of parental supervision. The group started to use marijuana and they stayed out all night. Her mother remembered that around that time, Lily got diagnosed with depression.
Around her sixteenth birthday, things went from bad to worse when Lily dropped out of school and began experimenting with ecstasy, ketamine, and other designer drugs. She would stay out all night, sleep in parks, and in the streets. Her mother would search frantically for her night after night. Lily did go home every now and then. She would rest and sober up only to disappear again. It was during this period that Lily met Kelly Rae Starling with whom she lived on the streets, in cars, and vacant houses. Kelly confirmed in the above mentioned newspaper article that Lily used drugs on a daily basis.
In 2003, when Lily was twenty years old, she met David Lamaso who was, according to the newspaper article, a heroin addict. The relationship was anything but healthy and Lily became more and more dependent on drugs. By 2004, they were experimenting with crack cocaine. The effects on Lily were clearly visible. According to her mother, she became angrier. During this time, her mother said, Lily was diagnosed with depression and schizophrenia. “She was paranoid and having hallucinations.”
In 2006, Lily found out she was pregnant. The fact that another life was now growing inside her gave her strength to change. She stopped using drugs, took Buddhism courses, became calmer, and even earned her GED. During these Buddhism courses, she met Janet Forte who helped her during her pregnancy. The two became very close friends. In 2007, Lily gave birth to Palden.
Janet has been working tirelessly on Lily’s case. The fact that the case is now on the Internet is thanks to Janet, who sometimes works 12 hours per day to get Lily’s disappearance more media attention.
Lily’s last boyfriend is probably the last one who saw her alive. Unfortunately, he was high on drugs at that time and was not able to stop Lily from leaving his house. Their relationship was rocky but somehow they applied for a marriage license and discussed relocating to Arizona. His drug use and the many late night parties were not a good environment for her son. After police had been to the house a few time, Lily’s mother got custody of Palden.
Reading through the newspaper article and Janet’s blog, you get the impression that from all missing persons’ cases, Lily’s is not getting any priority. Whether that is due to a lack of manpower or because other people, not living a drug-filled life, get priority, Vidocq does not know. We prefer to refrain from judging the police department’s actions until we have spoken to the detectives in charge.
One thing is obvious. A drugged, depressed, and probably hallucinating Lily takes off dressed in only a nightgown. There is a good chance that Lily was lured into another house to use drugs as some people say happened. But, with her tender, childlike figure, it is also possible that she was seen by some persons involved in trafficking. They may have anticipated a runaway child who was wondering the streets. Upon discovering that the person they grabbed was actually an adult, Lily’s body may have been dumped along the routes. An extended search of known trafficking routes could be useful in this case.
Should any news become available, you will be able to read it on Janet’s blog, on Twitter, and on www.defrostingcoldcases.com. The links are mentioned above.
Note: Vidocq consistently found the spelling of the name “Lily” with both a single and double “L.” We chose the single L spelling.
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